Dealing With Ex BoyfriendsGoing steady with someone you met from an online hookup service
When you join a casual hookup site, the last thing you expect to happen it to find love. Still, it happens all the time due to the fact that great sex can provoke feelings. If you met someone from an online hookup service and are beginning to have feelings for them, you should run away as fast as you can. If it’s too late for that and you are already invested in a relationship, there are probably some things you should know. Dating a woman you met from an online hookup service is pretty risky, but she could probably say the same thing about you. If you’re both very happy with each other and want to make it work, keep in mind that your new girlfriend might have a lot of ex boyfriends or past hookups. If this doesn’t bother you, you will be able to deal with her ex boyfriends properly.
Why acting jealous can ruin your relationship
If your new girlfriend has had a lot of past relationships, you shouldn’t really let it get to you. After all, you’ve probably had the same amount of sexual relationships as her. If your girlfriend is constantly being contacted by her ex boyfriends, getting jealous might end up ruining your relationship. If you don’t trust your partner, and believe her to be cheating, then get out of the relationship as soon as possible. However, if your girlfriend is truly being harassed by her ex, you need to put your jealousy aside and try to help her. Acting jealous won’t get you anywhere, and if she was into her exes she would probably still be dating them, so relax and remain calm.
How to deal with her ex boyfriends messaging her
Since your girlfriend is beautiful, good in bed, and just about everything you ever wanted in a woman, it shouldn’t be a surprise to hear that her ex boyfriends are still massaging her. Maybe they messed up and still love her, or maybe they remained on good terms and talk every once in awhile, if your girlfriend talking to her exes bothers you, you can always tell her how you feel (without accusing her of anything or acting jealous) and she might be able to clear up what happened and why it is they’re messaging her. She might have an obsessive ex who sends her messages every once in awhile but is slowly getting over her, if this is the case, you really have nothing to worry about, and dealing with her ex boyfriends really won’t be hard to do.
Why trusting her will keep you from fighting with her ex boyfriends
If you don’t trust your girlfriend, you’re going to end up ruining your relationship. Trusting her is probably the most important thing you can do. If she ever gives you a reason not to trust her, leave her and call it a loss, but until then she deserves to have your trust. If she told you that her ex boyfriend is calling her, messaging her, and wanting to take her out, you need to trust her when she says she told him no. If not, you’ll just end up calling her exes and trying to get to the bottom of it by snooping, which can either lead to you trying to fight her ex or you turning into a jealous person. Trusting her might not be easy, but you need to give it a fair shot. If your girlfriend it telling you about everyone who messages her, she isn’t trying to make you jealous, she’s trying to prove that she’s faithful and doesn’t want to hide something from you.
Making it clear that you’re in a serious relationship
If your girlfriends ex boyfriends are driving you crazy, you need to make it clear to them that you’re in a serious relationship. You can always ask your girlfriend to tell her exes to leave her alone because she is now in a serious relationship or you can take the matter into your own hands. By informing her exes that you are in a serious relationship, they can maybe get rid of some residual hope and move on. You can also try putting your display picture on facebook as you and your girlfriend, this will show up on her news feed and show the world that you and her are in a very serious relationship.