Catch Them Cheating Now
Are they cheating on you?
More often than not, when you suspect your lover of cheating on you, it is because they are. People tend to have something called intuition, so if your body starts talking to you out of nowhere, it is wise to listen to it. If you want to find out if your loved one is cheating, the best thing to do is ask them, but then again I guess it’s not that easy. Since infidelity is a testy subject for many couples, it is important to approach your loved one gently when trying to tackle this subject. If you aren’t willing to confront your lover about cheating based off of intuition, you should try reading up on some common cheating signs
and see if your partner has been acting in this manner.
Catch them cheating
When I first started thinking that my lover was seeing someone else besides me, I knew that in order to get them to confess, I needed some proof. Since I did not want to remain in a relationship where I was being played, I wanted to catch them cheating so that I could just walk out of the relationship without having to go through the breakup motions. In order to catch them cheating, I needed to find out what they were doing with their day when I was at work, so I got my little brother to follow them around and see what they were up to.
Are they in another emotional relationship?
My brother followed my partner around for the day and told me that nothing out of the ordinary was happening. I was relieved but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that I was being cheated on. I did some reading online, trying to find out if there were different types of cheating out there, and I found out that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. Apparently, some people cheat on their partners by texting a stranger all day, and sending them pictures of themselves. These strangers allegedly know all about your partner, and sometimes more than you do.
Are they physically cheating on you?
The thought of my partner cheating on me emotionally made me feel a little weird, but somehow I knew that something was going on. When I got home from work that night, I asked to look through their phone and they started getting defensive. Eventually I got the phone in my hands and confirmed my suspicions. My partner may not have been cheating on me physically, but they were sending nude pictures of themselves to randoms on the internet and it just made me feel like I didn’t know who I was with anymore.
Breaking up with a cheater
Although my partner hadn’t actually cheated on me in person, I still considered their actions as cheating and so I started to pack my bags right away. They kept pleading with me saying that they hadn’t done anything wrong, that they were just lonely, but I didn’t care. Breaking up with a cheater is a lot easier than breaking up with someone you have fallen out of love with because you don’t owe them an explanation. I slept at my brother’s place that night, found an apartment in Whanganui, and moved there the following week.