Are they cheating on you?
More often than not, when you suspect your lover of cheating on you, it is because they are. People tend to have something called intuition, so if your body starts talking to you out of nowhere, it is wise to listen to it. If you want to find out if your loved one is cheating, the best thing to do is ask them, but then again I guess it’s not that easy. Since infidelity is a testy subject for many couples, it is important to approach your loved one gently when trying to tackle this subject. If you aren’t willing to confront your lover about cheating based off of intuition, you should try reading up on some common cheating signs
and see if your partner has been acting in this manner.
Catch them cheating
When I first started thinking that my lover was seeing someone else besides me, I knew that in order to get them to confess, I needed some proof. Since I did not want to remain in a relationship where I was being played, I wanted to catch them cheating so that I could just walk out of the relationship without having to go through the breakup motions. In order to catch them cheating, I needed to find out what they were doing with their day when I was at work, so I got my little brother to follow them around and see what they were up to.
Are they in another emotional relationship?
My brother followed my partner around for the day and told me that nothing out of the ordinary was happening. I was relieved but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that I was being cheated on. I did some reading online, trying to find out if there were different types of cheating out there, and I found out that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. Apparently, some people cheat on their partners by texting a stranger all day, and sending them pictures of themselves. These strangers allegedly know all about your partner, and sometimes more than you do.
Are they physically cheating on you?
The thought of my partner cheating on me emotionally made me feel a little weird, but somehow I knew that something was going on. When I got home from work that night, I asked to look through their phone and they started getting defensive. Eventually I got the phone in my hands and confirmed my suspicions. My partner may not have been cheating on me physically, but they were sending nude pictures of themselves to randoms on the internet and it just made me feel like I didn’t know who I was with anymore.
Breaking up with a cheater
Although my partner hadn’t actually cheated on me in person, I still considered their actions as cheating and so I started to pack my bags right away. They kept pleading with me saying that they hadn’t done anything wrong, that they were just lonely, but I didn’t care. Breaking up with a cheater is a lot easier than breaking up with someone you have fallen out of love with because you don’t owe them an explanation. I slept at my brother’s place that night, found an apartment in Whanganui, and moved there the following week.
5 Clues That She’s Really Cheating On You
Is she having an affair or is it something else?
I love my wife with all my heart but sometimes she gives me reasons to doubt her loyalty to our marriage. We’ve been together for eight years, but even since we moved to Philadelphia last year for my job, I can’t help but wonder if she’s having an affair. I know that moving can be hard to get used to, and unlike her, I have friends here because of work. Since she hasn’t found a job yet, I don’t know whether or not she’s just depressed or if she’s having an affair with someone she met in Philadelphia while I’m at work.
She smells like cologne — She must be cheating
The other night when I got home from work, I could smell a manly musk off of her but instead of just asking her about it I asked her how her day went. She said that she went to the mall, did some shopping, and came back home but I don’t know why she would smell like that. I can’t shake the fact that she must be cheating but she has never been the cheating type and so I am a little more than confused. I know I should ask her about it but she moved her entire life to Philadelphia for me to land my dream job, and I don’t want to insult her.
How to know if she’s cheating: Get sneaky with it
Since I don’t want to ask her if she’s cheating on me, I decided to order a GPS tracker and put it in her car. I know it’s a sneaky way of finding out whether or not she’s cheating but I need to know — I love her. I’ve been tracking her activity for about two days now and she hasn’t gone anywhere but the corner store, mall, gym, and a park where she walks our dog. I’m starting to think that I may be paranoid that she is cheating but I’ll keep tracking her for a couple more days. I also can’t help but wonder if she’s already met someone and he is coming to our house to see her.
When you ask her if she’s cheating she starts acting like the victim
Last night when I got home from work my wife smelt like cologne again and I lost it. I accused her of cheating and told her why I thought so and she immediately started crying. I thought she was about to confess to cheating but she started acting like the victim instead, saying that she couldn’t find a job, was bored, had moved her for me, and smelt like cologne because she’d brought the dog to the groomers and they shampooed him. I smelt the dog to make sure, and the smells were compatible. I apologized to her and we talked things through.
She’s wearing new jewelry
Everything was fine until I saw her wearing a new necklace. I knew she hadn’t bought it for herself because she hated heart-shaped jewelry. Suddenly, I realised that my wife had never gone to the dog groomers (it wasn’t on the tracker), and that the only reason the dog smelt of cologne was because the man in question had been playing with it. I told her about it, she confirmed the affair, and I moved out the next day.