5 Telltale Signs That You Are Being Cheated On

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He’s obviously cheating on you

Some cheaters are better at hiding the fact that they are unfaithful than others, but despite their biggest efforts to get away with cheating, it is usually pretty easy to bust them. If you believe that you are being cheated on, there are many different ways to find out for sure. If he’s obviously cheating on you, you probably already know about it but are just looking for proof. Luckily, there are some telltale signs that you are being cheated on that are very easy to spot out. The first and most obvious sign that your partner is cheating is that they look guilty. Most first-time cheaters end up experiencing guilt, and because of this guilt they’ll distance themselves from their lovers. If your lover has begun to act distant and weird, this might be a clue that he has cheated on you.

How to tell if they are cheating: Their sex drive has changed

When you date someone for a long time, you become accustomed to their sex drive. You know when they enjoy having sex and you know how many times a week they want to have it. So if you’re used to your man having sex with you a certain amount of times a week, and then all of a sudden they just stop trying to be intimate, this might be a sign that they are getting their sex from someone else.

They disappear for hours on end without explanation

One of the biggest signs that you are being cheated on is when your boyfriend starts acting like a magician and disappearing from the globe. When you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s common for you to know where they are at at all times. So when they start disappearing for hours on end and not telling you where they were, it is normal for you to start thinking that they are seeing someone else. If your boyfriend is disappearing for hours a day, a couple times a week, and he isn’t telling you where he is, he is probably at some other girl’s house in Quebec City.

They don’t answer their phone when you call

If you were born in the past thirty years, the chances of you having your phone on you 24/7 is pretty high. Since the entire purpose of having a phone is to be able to answer and call your loved ones, it is very strange when someone you’re dating isn’t answering your call or messages. If you don’t know where your boyfriend is, and he doesn’t answer or text you back for over two hours and he’s not sleeping, something is definitely wrong.

They never want to go out on dates or spend real time with you

When you’re in love with someone and dating them, you usually go out on dates and spend time together right? So if all of a sudden your boyfriend is flaking out on you, not taking you out like he used to, and is overall only seeing you when he has to, you need to accept that he’s seeing someone else. He might not be taking you out anymore because he’s spending his money on taking out another woman. If you want to find out more about telltale clues that he’s cheating, read another one of our guides on the subject.

Catch Them Cheating: Emotionally And Physically

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Catch Them Cheating Now

Are they cheating on you?

More often than not, when you suspect your lover of cheating on you, it is because they are. People tend to have something called intuition, so if your body starts talking to you out of nowhere, it is wise to listen to it. If you want to find out if your loved one is cheating, the best thing to do is ask them, but then again I guess it’s not that easy. Since infidelity is a testy subject for many couples, it is important to approach your loved one gently when trying to tackle this subject. If you aren’t willing to confront your lover about cheating based off of intuition, you should try reading up on some common cheating signs
and see if your partner has been acting in this manner.

Catch them cheating

When I first started thinking that my lover was seeing someone else besides me, I knew that in order to get them to confess, I needed some proof. Since I did not want to remain in a relationship where I was being played, I wanted to catch them cheating so that I could just walk out of the relationship without having to go through the breakup motions. In order to catch them cheating, I needed to find out what they were doing with their day when I was at work, so I got my little brother to follow them around and see what they were up to.

Are they in another emotional relationship?

My brother followed my partner around for the day and told me that nothing out of the ordinary was happening. I was relieved but I still couldn’t shake the feeling that I was being cheated on. I did some reading online, trying to find out if there were different types of cheating out there, and I found out that there is such a thing as emotional cheating. Apparently, some people cheat on their partners by texting a stranger all day, and sending them pictures of themselves. These strangers allegedly know all about your partner, and sometimes more than you do.

Are they physically cheating on you?

The thought of my partner cheating on me emotionally made me feel a little weird, but somehow I knew that something was going on. When I got home from work that night, I asked to look through their phone and they started getting defensive. Eventually I got the phone in my hands and confirmed my suspicions. My partner may not have been cheating on me physically, but they were sending nude pictures of themselves to randoms on the internet and it just made me feel like I didn’t know who I was with anymore.

Breaking up with a cheater

Although my partner hadn’t actually cheated on me in person, I still considered their actions as cheating and so I started to pack my bags right away. They kept pleading with me saying that they hadn’t done anything wrong, that they were just lonely, but I didn’t care. Breaking up with a cheater is a lot easier than breaking up with someone you have fallen out of love with because you don’t owe them an explanation. I slept at my brother’s place that night, found an apartment in Whanganui, and moved there the following week.