Dating A Girl From An Online Hookup Service: 4 Ways To Deal With Her Ex Boyfriends

ex boyfriendDealing With Ex Boyfriends

Going steady with someone you met from an online hookup service

When you join a casual hookup site, the last thing you expect to happen it to find love. Still, it happens all the time due to the fact that great sex can provoke feelings. If you met someone from an online hookup service and are beginning to have feelings for them, you should run away as fast as you can. If it’s too late for that and you are already invested in a relationship, there are probably some things you should know. Dating a woman you met from an online hookup service is pretty risky, but she could probably say the same thing about you. If you’re both very happy with each other and want to make it work, keep in mind that your new girlfriend might have a lot of ex boyfriends or past hookups. If this doesn’t bother you, you will be able to deal with her ex boyfriends properly.

Why acting jealous can ruin your relationship

If your new girlfriend has had a lot of past relationships, you shouldn’t really let it get to you. After all, you’ve probably had the same amount of sexual relationships as her. If your girlfriend is constantly being contacted by her ex boyfriends, getting jealous might end up ruining your relationship. If you don’t trust your partner, and believe her to be cheating, then get out of the relationship as soon as possible. However, if your girlfriend is truly being harassed by her ex, you need to put your jealousy aside and try to help her. Acting jealous won’t get you anywhere, and if she was into her exes she would probably still be dating them, so relax and remain calm.

How to deal with her ex boyfriends messaging her

Since your girlfriend is beautiful, good in bed, and just about everything you ever wanted in a woman, it shouldn’t be a surprise to hear that her ex boyfriends are still massaging her. Maybe they messed up and still love her, or maybe they remained on good terms and talk every once in awhile, if your girlfriend talking to her exes bothers you, you can always tell her how you feel (without accusing her of anything or acting jealous) and she might be able to clear up what happened and why it is they’re messaging her. She might have an obsessive ex who sends her messages every once in awhile but is slowly getting over her, if this is the case, you really have nothing to worry about, and dealing with her ex boyfriends really won’t be hard to do.

Why trusting her will keep you from fighting with her ex boyfriends

If you don’t trust your girlfriend, you’re going to end up ruining your relationship. Trusting her is probably the most important thing you can do. If she ever gives you a reason not to trust her, leave her and call it a loss, but until then she deserves to have your trust. If she told you that her ex boyfriend is calling her, messaging her, and wanting to take her out, you need to trust her when she says she told him no. If not, you’ll just end up calling her exes and trying to get to the bottom of it by snooping, which can either lead to you trying to fight her ex or you turning into a jealous person. Trusting her might not be easy, but you need to give it a fair shot. If your girlfriend it telling you about everyone who messages her, she isn’t trying to make you jealous, she’s trying to prove that she’s faithful and doesn’t want to hide something from you.

Making it clear that you’re in a serious relationship

If your girlfriends ex boyfriends are driving you crazy, you need to make it clear to them that you’re in a serious relationship. You can always ask your girlfriend to tell her exes to leave her alone because she is now in a serious relationship or you can take the matter into your own hands. By informing her exes that you are in a serious relationship, they can maybe get rid of some residual hope and move on. You can also try putting your display picture on facebook as you and your girlfriend, this will show up on her news feed and show the world that you and her are in a very serious relationship.

Spot Psychotic Women: Learn To Avoid Meeting Girls That Are Batshit Crazy!

acting jealousActing Jealous

Reading deeper into her online dating messages

Let’s face it, some women are just batshit crazy, and they are damn good at hiding it too. Some men have dated the same woman for years, only to find out that they weren’t exactly who they were pretending to be. If you want to stop yourself from meeting psychotic women while surfing through the internet, you need to know how to spot a crazy woman from a mile away. The first clue to spotting a crazy lady is to read deeper into her online dating messages. If you start chatting with a hot girl, and she starts trying to get you to feel bad for her — something is up. A normal girl wouldn’t want to disclose any personal information right off the bat, but a crazy one would want to lure in her prey. Crazy girls usually like it when people feel bad for them, or they simply like being the centre of attention. So use a girls online dating messages as a guide, if she starts telling you her life story before you even asked, get away as quickly as possible. Oh yeah, and don’t fall for her hotness, crazy women are usually as crazy as they are attractive — you’ve been warned.

Does she talk badly about her ex boyfriends?

A good way to know if you’re seeing a crazy girl is by paying close attention to how she speaks about her ex boyfriends. If she always has a bad thing to say, or if her past relationships all ended badly, you might be standing in close proximity to a crazy chick. Crazy girls usually go through their fair share of boyfriends, this is because it usually doesn’t take too long for men to realise that their new girl is a psycho. If your girlfriend has had a large number of ex boyfriends, but none of her relationships have lasted more than a year, it is probably because she is batshit crazy. Normal women tend to only have good things to say about their ex boyfriends. Sure, there’s a reason they’re no longer together, but they still might have ended it on good terms. Crazy women tend to burn all their bridges down when something doesn’t go their way, so watch out.

Social Media: Your number one tool in spotting crazy girls

When you start chatting with a hot girl from a hookup dating website, you need to keep in mind the possibility of her being absolutely crazy. If you want to find out if she’s crazy before meeting up with her, you need to add her on Facebook or Instagram and do some social media snooping. The best way to spot a crazy chick is by looking into her social media accounts, crazy girls can’t help but leave some clues behind, so it really won’t be hard. First of all, try to notice if the girl you’re talking to has any pictures with girlfriends. If she has a lot of girlfriends, chances are she’s not that crazy. However, is she hardly has girlfriend pictures and have an abundance of selfies, you might have caught yourself a wild one. To confirm your suspicion, see if she posts any inspirational quotes, or if she posts song lyrics with her selfies. If she does, delete her and forget this ever happened.

Noticing her bad dating habits

Noticing her bad dating habits can help you escape from a crazy girl before you’ve committed to her. Crazy girl bad habits include complaining, whining, always needing to be right, thinking about herself, being materialistic, and wearing too much makeup. Also, try to notice if she tends to inflate situations to make her stories sound better. She might actually be a pathological liar and you wouldn’t be any the wiser. Pay close attention to her stories, and try to pick up on her lies, before she has you twirled around her finger.

Is she acting jealous for no reason?

If you’re dating a crazy girl, chances are she’s going to get jealous for no apparent reason. She might even start crying out of nowhere the second something doesn’t go away. Acting jealous is a clear sign of crazy, especially if you’ve never given her any reason to get jealous. If you call her jealous, she might even try to turn it against you, or flirt with other men to make you jealous too. If she does this, go up to the man she’s flirting with and tell him he can have her, she’s freaking crazy anyways.